Sunday, July 5, 2009

A ‘Woman’ I would appreciate....

It was a short trip to home last month. I happened to meet few relative ladies. Oh My God !! Are they same bunch of sisters who’s style I followed in my adolescents. Sad to say that Now they have difficulty walking and I remember them tripping the light fantastic toe…They were 25 Kg+ than their required weight and I remember their Levis pencil skirt…kind of shabby in their looks now but The shade and the fragrance of their latest lipstick is still there in my retention. What had they done to them selves….I wonder “ being married and keeping a house can be so consuming that we cant spare half an hour for the self?”
I don’t really know how and why but majority of the married woman say they are overly occupied looking after family & house hold chores that keeps them from a good facial, funky haircut, a relaxing body message, a wonderful book reading, or refreshing 20 minutes with an old friend over a coffee….?!? That made me think my checklist, which I would like to circulate :-) among us. We should …
-Be Sought-after companion & family member.
-Have an opinion.
-Appreciate the rewards of maturity, reason, and constraint.
-Create own definitions, Experiments with the concept of self.
-Convey the intentions prudently.
-Be truly interested in other people.
-Be able to converse with anyone.
-Respect younger’s boundaries & Elder’s age.
-Mostly make time for good lunch and an hour at Gym.
-Take enough intakes of iron, protein and Calcium.
-Try to be lively and cordial always.
-Rarely seek advice but is susceptible to worthy influence.
-Keep a little something back.
-Not be afraid to upset the balance sometimes. Experience new things.
-Know how to keep a secret.
-Not be defined by profession.
-Learn to turn around a bad situation.
-Have an instinct for humor.
-Accept that some things are best left to chance.
-Actively encourage others to author their own lives.
-Be curious and knowledgeable about art and politics.
-Celebrate your age and diverse network of relationships.
-Be always prepared for anything.
-Be the ultimate liaison.
-Believe everyone is responsible for his or her own happiness. (Including self)
-Know the mind and be decisive in action. Don’t be afraid to say NO.

Well, I can’t speak about the life I have not experienced but I will definitely apprize a woman who is fantastic in her physical & mental health and looks fabulous. A capable equipped happy woman for the amend family or society.


2 comments:

  1. Do you follow this entire check list? just curious to know....

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  2. Try to do that...
    I am not the one whom I appreciate always :-)

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